Look at the picture and remember carefully what you see first. Then read on to find out what the first photo you see is about and what you’re hiding in love. If you have seen…
1. Men’s Face If you look at this photo and see a man’s face, you’re a pleasure-oriented person. You don’t like to think about negative past experiences. For you, life means being lived.
What you are hiding from in a relationship is the fear that the other person will think you are carrying an emotional burden.
Entering a new relationship with the pain of a previous love experience is normal and natural. No one makes it through unscathed. You might think you would seem more “normal” if you kept quiet about it, but that actually creates distance between you and your partner and can ruin your chances of lasting love. So stop.
2. Boy If the first thing you see in the picture above is a boy, you have a joyful and longing heart. You are happy to be surrounded by the people and things you love. Nothing makes you happier than this. You don’t like being the center of attention, but that doesn’t mean you don’t like the feeling of being surrounded by famous and beloved faces.
In a relationship, you run away from the fear of growing up.
You may be an adult, but you have never felt that way. You pay the bills and go to work, but it’s as if you’re doing all you can to convince others that you’re old enough.
Sometimes you seem completely helpless and that doesn’t leave a good impression at all. And the truth is, it’s not you. You are just afraid that if the person you love feels unnecessary, you have nothing left to offer.
3. Landscape If the landscape is the first thing you see, then you are the happiest when you dream. Sure, you love your partner and have deep relationships with your friends, but you don’t always enjoy personal contact. You are only satisfied with communication via e-mail or sms, you do not see the benefits brought by “face-to-face” communication.
What you are hiding from in a relationship is the urgent need for time to yourself.
When you spend time alone, it makes you happy, you feel rested and energized, but it’s not something to be proud of. In fact, you used to say it was wrong and/or selfish in the past.
There’s no shame in needing time and space, but you should definitely be open about it with your partner. If you can’t ask for what you need, you can’t be angry when you don’t get it.
4. Two huts If two huts are the first thing you see in the photo above, you may be the person who has been accused of being “too sensitive”. You are not: you have strong emotions, and when something touches them, you reveal yourself. You are only human and there is nothing strange or wrong about that.
What you avoid in a relationship is direct conflict. You don’t like criticism. I know who likes it? But even constructive criticism can be seen as a devastating attack on you. There’s nothing you can do about it, then you feel cornered and feel entitled to be angry.
Just be careful when you react so you don’t misunderstand someone’s intentions. Anger is a legitimate feeling when you have a good reason to feel it.
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Source: HIS Education