DEAR DEIDRE: I STUPIDLY had sex with my girlfriend’s mom. I always had an opinion about men who cheated – they were scum – and now I’ve done it myself.
My girlfriend and I have been together for 18 months. She is 28 and I am 30 years old.
She works in PR and I am a gym instructor. My girlfriend had to go to a big event in Spain in November that she had been planning for months. That meant we couldn’t be together, but work was important to her.
My girlfriend’s mother stayed with us the weekend before my girlfriend left. I planned to drop her off on my way back after dropping my girlfriend off at the airport.
When we got back to her house, she invited me inside.
Her mother, a 48-year-old divorcee, agreed. After a cup of tea, she took wine from the fridge and before I knew it, we had finished the bottle.
She insisted we go next door because she was invited for a drink so I went with her and when I came back I was devastated.
She said she was cold, so she asked me to pet her.
Then I went to bed, but she must have misinterpreted our hug and climbed into bed next to me in the middle of the night. She was wearing sexy underwear. We kissed and then we had sex.
I’m not proud of what I did, but it was an alcoholic haze. I left there before she came the next morning.
I feel so guilty, but I can’t get her mother out of my mind. We’re supposed to be there for Sunday lunch, but I’m afraid this is going to explode. I feel so bad and I deserve everything I get.
DEIDRE SAYS: What a depressing scenario; your girlfriend would be absolutely devastated if she found out about this.
Talk to your girlfriend’s mom and explain to her that this will never happen again.
Make sure you are never alone with your girlfriend’s mom again. He won’t say anything if you don’t – he has to lose his relationship with his daughter.
Learn from this mistake and make a pact to bring fresh energy to your relationship with your girlfriend.
Alcohol seriously impairs our judgment, so avoid overindulging to stay in control of your choices.
My support package called Relationship MOT will help.
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