DEAR DEIDRE: MY sister and I have had a passionate kiss and we are on the verge of full intercourse.
Growing up we thought we were half-siblings, but last year we found out that my step-mom cheated on my dad, and my ‘half-sister’ is not related to me at all.
Ever since I found out the truth, I started to feel differently about her and realized that I was attracted to her – even imagining us together.
I am a 39 year old male and my mom died when I was a child. Dad remarried when I was six and I loved having a new mom.
When they had a daughter together a year later, I was so excited. I adored her and as we grew up, we became best friends.
Unfortunately, my dad’s marriage broke up after 10 years, but my ‘sister’ and I remained very close. I always recognized that she was beautiful even as an adult – very attractive. He is now 32 years old.
But things have definitely evolved since I found out she wasn’t my flesh and blood.
The truth came out when my ‘sister’ got a DNA kit for her birthday and my stepmother finally admitted that there was another man around the time my sister was conceived.
Since then, my sister and I have been seeing each other, but things are getting more intense.
The last time I saw her, she told me she wanted sex, and to be honest, I did too.
But this is so wrong. On one level, even though we’re not related, she still feels like family.
She calls me all the time now and I know in my heart that I love her, but is it right to move on?
DEIDRE SAYS: She is not related by blood, nor have you cared for her in a position of trust, so you are legally free to have a relationship or marry, but further action would no doubt affect the larger family.
Your family has considered you brother and sister for over three decades, so it will take a big shift in mindset to see you as an established couple.
Would you be prepared for the possible reaction of those relatives or perhaps your parents?
You’ve been there for each other for a long time, so it’s going to be weird to think of her as more than a sister.
This may not be good for you, but it would be a good idea to talk to a counselor about it. My support package How Counseling Can Help shows you where you can find emotional help.
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