DEAR DEIDRE: My ex left me because of my fetish so I’m nervous about asking my new girlfriend to do this.
But I long to try naked wrestling with her.
My girlfriend is 24 years old and very beautiful. But I’ve only been open with a few partners about my naked wrestling fetish, and my last girlfriend refused to try it at all.
When I tried to talk her into trying it, she immediately kicked me, saying I was a freak.
I’m pretty sure my fetish comes from play fighting with my cousins in our swimming trunks and costumes when we were kids.
Even at that young age, I knew I had to hide my excitement.
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I’m 27 years old and I’m also very excited to learn about my partner’s sexual past.
My girlfriend was quite shy about these details at first, but when she saw that, instead of getting jealous, I got really turned on, she became more willing to share her exploits.
Now I know that she had five boyfriends and had sex with all of them. I go to the same gym as her last ex.
First they did it in his car, and she told me that once they had sex in her parents’ greenhouse while the neighbor was trimming his hedge.
She was afraid she would look and see them, but that added to the excitement.
I think about her with that ex when I’m alone and when we’re having sex. I can imagine her under his firm body.
I had several girlfriends and some of them got fed up with all my sexual questions.
DEIDRE SAYS: We all have a past – you can’t change that. Fighting game is no different from any other type of fetish.
Right now, you’re back to your sexual awakening as a boy, but that doesn’t mean everyone will feel as excited as you.
If you’re physically stronger than your partner and holding them back, they might feel abused or hurt, so it’s important to agree on what to do first and have a boundary – and a safe word to use if things go too far.
For the longevity of this relationship, it may be better to find something that you can both enjoy sexually.
My support packages, Fetish Worries and 50 Ways To Add Fun To Sex, will give you some ideas.
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