DEAR DEIDRE: THREESOME gave me the best sex of my life, but I paid the ultimate price for it and lost everything.
I’m not sure who suggested it, me, my wife or my best mate – we were all so drunk that none of us were thinking straight.
I am 39 years old, I have two wonderful sons aged seven and nine. My soon-to-be ex-wife is 36 years old.
We were happily married for almost ten years. We had a big house, cute kids and nice cars.
Now I wish I had never made friends with our neighbors.
They seemed fun then. We all got along and went out regularly.
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After one drunken evening, they suggested that we continue the party at their house.
But my friend’s partner soon went to bed, leaving the three of us to continue drinking in the lounge.
My friend started asking us what our sexual fantasies were. The conversation quickly turned into three.
I could tell my wife was feeling lively, and when I asked her if we’d be interested, we both agreed.
Moments later me and my friend, 41, were having sex with my wife on the sofa. Then it happened two more times after that.
Three months later, completely out of the blue, my wife said she was leaving me and wanted a divorce.
I was devastated. I discovered that she was secretly seeing my partner. I moved out and my wife continued to see him.
She also dated some other guys. She has changed a lot now and I don’t want her back, but I can’t help but blame myself.
We’re about to get a divorce and I’m stuck in a lousy bed wondering what went wrong.
DEIDRE SAYS: Threes often lead to some unexpected consequences. Your contribution to your marriage. But was it as happy as you remember?
If your wife was feeling neglected, that crazy night would make her feel cheap.
Right now you feel like you’ve lost everything – but you can still be an involved and caring father and eventually build a new home and love relationship.
Your children will be upset and confused by what is happening.
Threesomes can work for some couples, but it’s crucial to discuss boundaries and have a well-established sense of trust first. My Moving On support package should help you.
Categories: Optical Illusion
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