RHOSLC’s Mary M. Cosby Told Her Son’s Partner ‘Don’t Be Faking It’ After Hearing Them Have Sex

Mary M. Cosby has advice for her son Robert Jr. Cosby’s wife!

On Tuesday in the second installment of The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City reunion in season 4, the former pastor, 51, revealed that she still does not believe that her son is married after she confronted him about the rumors about his union.

Mary told host Andy Cohen that she would not believe that Robert Jr. officially married until he shows her the “paperwork”.

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Mary Cosby. Chad Kirkland/Bravo

“I can’t even say it. I said, ‘Find your girlfriend.’ I call her his girlfriend all the time,” she said, before admitting she created an environment where he felt he couldn’t acknowledge his marital status. “I kept telling him, ‘That’s not your wife.’

Robert Jr. he is 21, and Mary said she believed he was “too young to marry.”

Life with her son and his new wife turned out to be complicated for her. In never-before-seen footage of the trio making out under the same roof, Mary told her make-up artist that Robert Jr. “doing his thing with his girlfriend” and that she was disturbed by “all this noise” upstairs coming from their bedroom behind a closed door.

She then revealed that she had confronted her son’s partner about the intimate sounds she had heard. – I said: “Oh my God. I said, ‘Don’t let my son think he’s better than he is. Stop doing all that. Stop playing with him. Cut it out.’ Tell him the truth,” she recalled.

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Andy Cohen and Mary Cosby. Charles Sykes/Getty

When the flashback ended, she clarified her comments about the reunion and told Andy, “I didn’t think he was bad in bed.”

“I just told the woman or the girl to stop pretending,” she explained. “Because I walked past their room and heard all this noise and all this screaming and all this drama and I said, ‘It’s not that serious. Don’t give him a big head and think he’s this real…’ You know? Come on .”

As she mimicked a loud orgasm, Mary recalled hearing “yelling.” She said she was about to rush into the room to check everyone was okay when she “got the point” before walking in and leaving “scarred”.

“Be true to it. If it is, then… but if it’s not, don’t make him think it is. Don’t fake it. Yeah, that’s all,” she added.

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The Real Housewives of Salt Lake City airs Tuesdays at 8:00 PM ET on Bravo.

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