DEAR DEIDRE: Six years later, the guilt of being unfaithful to my husband still keeps me up at night.
It’s gotten to the point where I feel the only way out is to tell him the truth.
I am 35 and he is 37 and we have been married for seven years.
Besides that, we were always open and honest with each other. This is, as far as I know, the only fly in the head.
When my friends first suggested we book a holiday to Thailand together, I was so excited. It’s been on my bucket list for as long as I can remember.
From visiting historic temples to swimming with elephants, there was so much I wanted to do and see.
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This included trying a traditional Thai massage.
A friend raved about how relaxing and therapeutic they were, so I jumped at the chance when I saw it was available at our hotel.
It would be an understatement to say that I enjoyed it.
Although I expected it to be a full body experience, things escalated further than they should have and the woman brought me to climax.
Looking back, I know I should have stopped her, but in the moment I was enjoying the feeling of her touch too much.
After the first session I couldn’t resist going back and got a few messages from the same woman before the holiday was over.
She brought me to orgasm every time and I enjoyed returning the favor to her as well.
Now that I’m home, the guilt has fully set in and I feel terrible about how I betrayed my husband. I just don’t know what got into me.
I know I have to come clean, but I’m worried about how he’ll take it.
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s understandable that you feel guilty, but ask yourself if telling your husband will solve anything.
While this may make you feel better for a few seconds, it will hurt him deeply and almost certainly destroy your otherwise happy relationship.
While they may not leave you, they will never trust you in quite the same way again.
It sounds clear that you have learned from your mistake.
If you can’t deal with the guilt, wouldn’t it be better to get it off your chest by talking to a counselor, in confidence.
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