Dear Deidre: My new “mom friends” secretly replaced my husbands, but I got caught up in crossfire and now everyone turned against me.
I am 24 years old and my partner 25. None of our friends has children yet, so when our son started school in September, I joined PTA to meet more parents.
So I met two pairs that were a little older than me, but a great party.
I was delighted that my social life had picked up.
One night we went to the quiz at school.
The wine flowed and I caught one father flirting with my wife from another couple, touching her crowd as we walked in and caressed her leg under the table.
I didn’t want my other friend to be injured so I caught her stage alone and casually asked if she thought her husband was acting funny.
She looked panic and admitted she had an affair with another father.
I stood there in shock as she told me that their relationship lasted for two years.
She swore that I would secrete that secrecy, saying that she would cancel it in the new year.
So, between four of them, the two had an affair, and the other two seemed to embark on one if they weren’t already.
Dear Deidre: Cheating and can you get over it
For the next few months, I didn’t know where to put myself in and eventually stress became too much, so I distanced myself from all of them.
But through Christmas, everything happened about a two -year affair and now the woman who confided in me is convinced that I have shed the beans, but I did not.
Ever since the school started again, no other mom talks to me. Will I forever be a social renegade?
Deidre says: Unfortunately, playground policy can be brutal no matter how old you are.
You didn’t do anything wrong. I know you are stressed now and worried, but the truth has a habit of answering.
Your ex -friend will find out all the gossip has not come from you.
When he does, you will have to decide if you still want to be friends with someone who jumps so quickly to conclusions.
Keep your head high and focus on less complicated friendship.
Look further and find other local parent friends.
See Meetup.com or Peanut, an application designed by a networking expert to help women meet friends.
And read my support package called Witting Your Social Scene.
The focus outside of school will make the time of taking less stressful and help you stay emotionally separated from any drama.
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