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Have you ever heard the term “brotherly hug” and wondered what it meant? Or how does it differ from other types of hugs? A brotherly hug is a greeting between male friends that sometimes involves an elaborate handshake combined with a quick, casual hug. This article covers what a brotherly hug means, how to do it, and where it comes from. Plus, we’ll cover different ways to personalize a hug and make it your own.
A brotherly hug is a handshake that turns into a one-armed hug, usually between platonic male friends. This male hug ends with patting or patting on the back.
Move forward and shake hands with the other guy. When you see a male friend, move towards him with your right hand extended. Turn your palm to the side to meet the other man’s hand in a traditional handshake. Grasp the other man’s hand with a firm but not angry grip.[3]
Say something friendly like, “Hey man!” or “What’s going on?”- Alternatively, as you enter the handshake, slam your hand against his before you catch it.
- As you grasp the other man’s hand, position your thumb and fingers so that the web of your hand meets the web of his hand.
- In a traditional handshake, you would shake your hand up and down 2-3 times before letting it go. A handshake with a brotherly hug can involve 1-2 handshakes, but not letting go.
Pull your joined hands to chest level and lean forward. Moving to chest level usually requires you to twist your grip into a more arm wrestling grip. Turn your wrist so that your palm is facing your chest.
- Lean forward so that your chest meets with your hands clasped between you.
- Keep your torso and pelvis away from the other man, forming a rough triangle with your bodies.
Swing your left arm around his back and pat him before letting go. As you lean forward in the previous step, swing your left arm wide. When your hand reaches the middle-top of the other man’s back, pat him hard 2-3 times. Then immediately release the hug and handshake and step away.[4]
- Another option is to make a fist with your left hand and slap the other man on the back twice with the side of your fist.
- If the other man does not extend his arm for a hug, avoid an awkward situation by patting him firmly on the shoulder with your left hand instead of hugging.
- Watch their body language to know if it’s okay to hug someone.
- Avoid hugging if the other person seems uncomfortable or pulls away from you instead of coming closer.
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