Love knows no bounds — but when you’re searching for your match on The Bachelor, rules apply.
The ABC series, hosted by season 5 lead Jesse Palmer, kicks off its 29th season on Jan. 27, with former The Bachelorette contestant Grant Ellis stepping into the spotlight as lead. While living in a luxurious California mansion and traveling to romantic destinations around the globe might feel like a fairytale, participants on the show must abide by a strict set of rules throughout their “journey” — yes, even including the frequent use of that word.
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As it turns out, some of the guidelines may stem from Palmer himself, who recalled to former The Bachelorette lead Jenn Tran that he might be the reason food is no longer eaten during one-on-one dates.
“On my season, I was scarfing the food down on every single date. I’d try to have this serious heartfelt conversation and I’m just literally talking through the food … and I think after that they had to stop doing it,” he told Tran during season 21 of the show. “I essentially ruined it for everybody.”
From their limo entrances to which items are prohibited, here are 13 rules the contestants on The Bachelor have to follow, as revealed by the hopefuls themselves.
Contestants must meet certain requirements to be cast
‘The Bachelor’ season 26 cast.
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Interested in applying to be on The Bachelor? Several requirements must be met for casting eligibility, according to the show’s official casting website.
Applicants must be at least 21 years of age at the time of application. Additionally, hopefuls must be legal residents of the United States or Canada (excluding Quebec) — and have a valid passport for one year following application submission.
Further, all applicants must be single (and divorces need to be finalized!), including any involvement in a “committed intimate relationship,” the website reads. Plus, if you’re there for the wrong reasons, you might be told to leave on night one!
Contestants can’t disclose they’ve been cast
‘The Bachelor’ season 21 cast starring Nick Viall.
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Attending a casting session must be kept confidential. Applicants who are selected to participate must keep information about the process private, especially if chosen to be on the show, per the casting website.
Chelsea Roy, who appeared on season 22 of The Bachelor with Arie Luyendyk Jr. as the lead, told Vox in January 2019 that the confidentiality surrounding the show made it challenging to secure brand sponsorships, which she had hoped to arrange in advance to borrow outfits for filming.
“We sign a big NDA [nondisclosure] agreement where we’re not allowed to tell anyone that we’ve been cast and we’re going to start filming the show,” she told the outlet. “I was able to reach out to a couple of people, local people, and say, ‘I would like to support your store in exchange for some exposure in the next few months. Just trust me.’ ”
They might be asked to take a physical and psychological test
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Prior to taping The Bachelor, contestants might be asked to complete a few evaluations first. All contestants selected to travel to Los Angeles “may be required to undergo physical, medical and psychological examinations,” the eligibility site states.
Contestants must agree to be filmed up to 24 hours a day
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If applying to be on The Bachelor, hopefuls must agree to be recorded at all times. According to the requirements on the show’s official casting website, participants must agree to being filmed and audiotaped up to 24 hours.
However, former host Chris Harrison revealed that they don’t have hidden mics — and there are times when contestants are allowed to get some privacy.
“It’s not a gotcha show. It’s not a hidden camera show,” he told Entertainment Tonight in January 2020. “And we tell people, if you are in the bathroom or whatever, you’re off-mic. There are a lot of times when they’re not even on mic … We do give you a lot of alone time if you need that personal space.”
Contestants have to bring their own clothes — and follow a dress code
Gabby Windey, Rachel Recchia and Susie Evans during ‘The Bachelor’ season 26 rose ceremony.
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Not only do contestants have to pack their own clothes, but they must also abide by a dress code. This is in part due to filming technicalities, like avoiding specific patterns that may clash on camera.
Season 16’s Jaclyn Swartz told The Fashionista in January 2017 that one of her dresses — which had orange, blue and white zigzags — had to be tested on camera, but was approved.
“The only time they’ll come and tap you on the shoulder is if they’re noticing that it’s not working on camera,” she said. “They would never be like, ‘Oh, that’s ugly. Take it off.’ They would say, ‘It’s just not translating well on camera. You should change, but that’s to benefit you.’ ”
Producers are even more involved when it comes to night one dresses.
“The [show’s] stylist Cary Fetman and a producer will come around to [your] room and they’ll approve the dress for the first night,” Swartz said. “That’s usually to make sure no two girls are wearing the same dress.”
Limo entrances are strategic
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Harrison told Entertainment Tonight that he and the show’s producers work with the women on The Bachelor to plan their night one limo entrances.
“They get to L.A., we start talking to them about their hobbies: Do you ride horses? Do you fly planes? Is there something funny that you would like to talk about?” he said. “Because you can’t just have 30 people getting out going, ‘Hi, my name’s Lauren.’ We do try to mix it up.”
Harrison shared that he even sometimes helped write “one-liners” for contestants.
“When people are showing up in windmills and suitcases and all that, yeah, I’ll throw some lines out every now and then,” he added. “You know, I got the dad jokes. I like to share.”
Contestants are not allowed to eat the food on one-on-one dates
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Wondering why you don’t often see anyone chowing down on the beautiful plated meals on group dates or one-on-ones? That’s because contestants reportedly eat before taping.
“Before we went on the date, the producers sent food to our hotel rooms,” season 17 lead Sean Lowe revealed in his book, For the Right Reasons: America’s Favorite Bachelor on Faith, Love, Marriage, and Why Nice Guys Finish First, per Bustle.
“We ate in our rooms and then went out for dinner, where we would be given beautiful food arranged nicely on the plate,” he continued. “This was just for show. No one looks good eating and microphones pick up all kinds of chomping.”
They can’t access their phones or internet
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Who needs outside contact when the love of your life is in the same mansion as you, right? Contestants are stripped of their phones when filming begins. (According to The Verge, contestants with children are provided with a phone to use every few days, but cannot hold onto their own personal devices.)
Former contestant Ashleigh Hunt, who was on season 14 with Jake Pavelka as the lead, told The Ashley’s Reality Roundup in July 2011 that computers were also “taken away” on day one.
“We [would] sit in the house or by the pool; it gets pretty boring,” she said. “One day I ran laps around the outside of the house since there was not a gym.”
There’s a good reason for this rule: “The producers’ obligation was to keep us from being distracted from life itself and focus on what we were there for, to meet our future husband,” season 17’s Tierra LiCausi told The Verge in June 2017.
Contestants can’t bring books or listen to music — but they can sometimes watch movies
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Similar to the limited phone access, the way the contestants spend their downtime on the show is controlled.
“No phone and no books. They were all taken,” season 17’s AshLee Frazier told The Verge. “Music wasn’t allowed, but some sneak it in and hope to not get caught. The only book[s] allowed are Bibles.”
This specific rule may have changed over time, as season 21’s Whitney Fransway — who vied for Nick Viall’s final rose — shared that contestants could bring “printed content” such as books and journals and could listen to music during car rides once done filming.
Frazier and LiCausi also noted occasional “blackout days,” when the cast got a break from filming and were allowed to watch movies.
They must say “journey” instead of “process”
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Have you ever wondered why contestants on The Bachelor and The Bachelorette say “journey” so often?
Lowe opened up about the reasoning behind this to Glamour in January 2015, saying, “Any time you call it a process, they will make you re-tape it and say journey.”
Contestants have to do their own laundry and cooking during their time on the show
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Although the Bachelor Mansion seems like a glamorous vacation to viewers, Hughes revealed to The Daily Beast that they do still have to do some of their own chores.
“We have to do our own cooking, our own laundry,” she said. “We do everything you would do when you’re at home, except be able to go outside of your home.”
Season 15 contestant Ashley Spivey — who was competing for Brad Womack’s final rose in 2011 — told Refinery29 in August 2016 that dinner was often made by “whoever felt like cooking for everyone.”
However, Spivey said the women did get a break from cooking at times.
“For rose ceremonies, they have catered food available for the girls, but a lot of it isn’t the healthiest — think California Pizza Kitchen and fried chicken tenders,” she said.
Contestants can’t disclose spoilers when filming wraps
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Contestant David Ravitz, who appeared on The Bachelorette season 14, told Refinery29 in September 2018 that ABC goes to great lengths to prevent content leaks from happening when filming wraps.
“You sign all kinds of paperwork, confidentiality and whatnot,” he told the outlet. “You know it all has to be secretive and you’re not supposed to talk about behind the scenes, you’re not supposed to talk about relationships that form.”
“We get to experience really cool things, potentially meet a life partner, and in return, we know that we need to give the studio full confidentiality and give the show the respect they deserve,” Ravitz continued. “That’s kind of the give and take that goes along with the whole experience that we get to partake in.”
If contestants end their engagement within two years, they have to give their ring back
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There’s nothing quite like that final episode when the rose is swapped for a shiny Neil Lane engagement ring. But as it turns out, there’s a clause in the contract that imposes a time limit on how long couples must stay together to keep the ring.
Jesse Csincsak — who received DeAnna Pappas’ final rose on The Bachelorette season 4 — revealed to Bustle in March 2014 that “if you are not together for two years after the final day of the show airing, you have to give them the ring back.”
It’s likely the time limit applies to The Bachelor contestants as well, given that Harrison echoed there being “some rule” in Bachelor Nation about the ring to Entertainment Weekly in March 2016.
Where the ring goes after it’s returned remains a mystery, though Lane joked to StyleCaster in 2016 that they go to “ring heaven.”
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