90 Day’s Daniele Refuses to Treat Yohan Like a ‘Kept Man’ and Shekinah Calls Sarper a ‘Giant Red Flag’

The fog began to clear 90 Day Fiancé: Another way couples.

While living abroad may seem like paradise, it’s far from it as Americans begin to learn the inner workings of their partners’ personalities. Monday night’s episode focuses on four couples making big life decisions. From weddings and babies to buying new beds, every relationship has stopped here.

Shekinah and Sarper

Sarper and Shekinah have had differing opinions on social media, sparking a feud on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

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Shekinah was officially living in Turkey and began to notice a few things about Sarper that she didn’t like. Despite their chemistry in the bedroom, their opinions on social media, fitness and general lifestyle were poised to influence their future. The episode began with Sarper insisting on weighing Shekinah to see if she had reached the “target weight” he had set for her. This, of course, made her uncomfortable.

Later, Sarper and Shekinah had their first big fight over a selfie Shekinah took. The couple’s photo was cute enough that she wanted to post it on Instagram — but Sarper said she wasn’t allowed to. “Your account is not private. Everyone can see you. So when you post something, someone can say something about it,” he told her. Sarper’s concern was that a woman from his past (or many of them) would slip into her DMs with revelations about her boyfriend, a self-proclaimed playboy.

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Shekinah didn’t buy his reasoning, telling Sarper, “This is really moving me now, because I’ve dealt with it a lot. Guys who want my account to be private and don’t want me to post a link. I know exactly what that means. You don’t want certain women to see me.”

In the interview, she repeated: “It has already happened to me. I’ve dated controlling guys… they always want to hide relationships so they can continue to be side players. I mean, he’s slept with thousands of women, so I’m not going to get into that.”

Later in the episode, Shekinah and Sarper went on a boat ride. With a red blanket over her shoulders, blowing in the wind, she joked that her boyfriend literally looked like a “huge red flag”.

Daniel and Yohan

Daniele and Yohan argued about buying a $30,000 car on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

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Yohan seemed to be thinking about the end of his marriage to Daniele. During a workout with a friend, Yohan vented his frustration with Daniela after the immigration meeting when she said she was comfortable sponsoring her husband for a US travel visa only.

“Daniele was aware of my financial situation from the beginning. I’ve spent my whole life working here, and I have nothing,” said Yohan about wanting to leave the Dominican Republic and go to America. “You want to live here, fine. But I won’t pay rent, I won’t rent cars. I’m tired of it all. I’m done with all that.”

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As this potential tipping point loomed, Daniele and Yohan shopped for cars. He set out to buy a $30,000 model, but Daniele was having none of it. “If Yohan thinks he has an American wife who will fully train and support him, then he has chosen the wrong American woman,” she said. “I’m not interested in having a restrained man, I made that very clear.”

Kenny and Armando

Kenny and Armando celebrated their future path — which finally looks the same for both of them.

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Kenny and Armando made two big decisions on Monday night’s episode.

First, Armando fell in love with Mexico City during their trial summer there and agreed to pack up and move there full time. Although initially nervous about being vulnerable to crime, Armando felt safe and fulfilled, so the men decided to wait until daughter Hannah’s school year was over before moving.

And Kenny had an “epiphany” about welcoming a new baby via surrogate: “I came to the surrogacy decision in the middle of the night. I was up all night thinking about it and I told Armand I’d have an answer for him by the time we left Mexico City,” Kenny said on camera. “I’ve never let anything stop me in my life before. I’ve never let unknowns or obstacles stop me from doing anything. It’s scary as hell, but I know I can do anything. And having Armando by my side in to this, it is possible. And I want to fulfill it for him and for us.”

Kenny decided he wanted to become a father again. With the only obstacle being his age, he agreed to want a child in order to get the most out of life and their marriage. This was fantastic news for Armand, who was eager to have a child together. As Kenny and Armando drove home, it was clear that they had come to the same page and understanding of the next chapter.

“I know, there are a lot of unknowns with this and I’m very nervous, but I’m excited to start this journey with you and we’re going to have the sweetest baby — the sweetest family,” Armando said.

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Kimberly and TJ

TJ broke up with Kimberly via text just days before their 90-day fiance’s wedding: The Other Way.

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Last week, Kimberly and TJ broke up via text after a failed dinner with her parents. Their wedding was in just two days, but it was impossible to guess whether it would take place. Monday night’s episode showed the rest of Kimberly’s phone conversation with TJ – and her desperation to fix the relationship.

“There’s no reason to stick together if someone is very sad and very disappointed by other people’s actions,” TJ said of his decision to leave her. Kimberly then apologized for not handling the relationship well saying, “I guess subconsciously I thought you were never going to break up with me.”

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TJ evaluated the whole relationship in an interview: “I love Kimberly very much, but sometimes it’s very difficult to make her happy. Sometimes it doesn’t seem worth the fight.”

At the end of the day, he decided it was worth it. TJ changed his attitude and welcomed Kimberly back into his life. “There is a future,” he told her. “And we’re getting married in two days.”

It was great news for Kimberly. The couple were all smiles as they hung up the phone to prepare for their next nuptials. “I don’t know what I would do if I lost TJ at this point because all the futures I see are us together,” Kimberly said.

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90 Day Fiancé: Another way airs Mondays at 8:00 PM ET on TLC.

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