As Bank Accounts and Promises Get Broken on ’90 Day’, 1 Man Thinks He’s Found The One After 2,500 Conquests

Where one relationship blossomed, another ended 90 Day Fiancé: Another way.

As Kimberly and TJ began putting the finishing touches on their wedding, tension between her and his family grew after she wore ripped jeans while at their home. When drama from last week’s event resurfaced, things got too much as she claimed she would not be part of a “toxic household”.

After weeks of uncertainty surrounding Julio’s move to the Netherlands, the fate of his relationship with Kirsten hung heavily in the air after he announced his decision to stay in America. Mary and Brandan had a serious talk about money after he admitted he didn’t have enough to cover their bills after he sent her $70,000 to build a house.

Meanwhile, Shekinah and Sarper remained blissfully happy. Sarper revealed that he is ready to give up his “playboy” styles to win the Shekinah forever.

Find out more about each couple in Monday’s episode 90 Day Fiancé: Another way.

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Kimberly and TJ

With the couple’s wedding four days away, Kimberly and TJ hit the road to visit their venue for the first time. Despite the explosive feud she had with TJ’s brother Yash, the Alabama native remained positive about their upcoming nuptials and they met with a decorator to finalize the final details.

Kimberly told the salesperson that she would have preferred light pink and white details, instead of the hot pink chairs she saw lying around the space. In a confessional interview, she admitted that she always imagined her “dream wedding” in “a forest with lights hanging from the trees [and] candles everywhere. Lots of white with ballet pink details.”

“But in India you do your best. Everything is in color!” she added before noting that she had a “good feeling” about the place.

Kimberly and TJ in ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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With Kimberly’s demand for perfection, TJ admitted that he felt nervous about what she would think of the closing ceremony as he had planned most of the details while she was in America.

“I’m happy she’s excited about the wedding,” he told the cameras. “But on the other hand I’m worried because she’s so specific about the things she wants. [She wants] perfection and all.”

TJ continued, “There are many things that are different about Indian weddings than American weddings. And since she wasn’t that involved in the wedding planning, I’m worried that on the day of the wedding she might find something to get upset about and spoil the wedding festivities.”

In an attempt to reconcile their differences from the night before, Kimberly joined TJ to talk to Yash and his mother and father to clear up any misunderstandings before his father’s visit. But as soon as Kimberly entered the room, her future mother-in-law objected to her ripped jeans and demanded that she learn some “manners” and adhere to Indian customs.

Kimberly and TJ from ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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“You need to stop a little, have a little patience,” TJ defended his intention as Yash started to add to the pile.

When he asked them if they had any intention of working things out, TJ’s mother feigned innocence on Yash’s behalf and claimed that Kimberly was “unpleasant” and making “baseless accusations”.

The tension began to rise and things became too much for Kimberly, who left the room.

“The only thing I wanted was not to be stuck in the middle of people yelling at me or about me in a foreign language I don’t understand. They are just rude,” she said to the cameras. “I’m worried about TJ. I feel bad because I feel like this is all my fault, but I won’t live in this kind of environment. I grew up in a toxic household. I won’t do it again.”

Kimberly in ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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Kirsten and Julio

Kirsten and Julio reached the end of the road when he announced his decision to stay in America despite his promise to move to the Netherlands.

“A few days ago I talked to Kirsten and I told her that I can’t move to the Netherlands soon,” explained Julio in the confessional. “She’s upset at the moment but I spoke to mum and she told me not to leave.”

He shared that it’s a “tough time for my brothers right now” and opened up about his mom’s plans to help her “keep them on track.”

90 Day: Julio questions his future with Kirsten as she becomes skeptical of his plans to move abroad

In the video call, Kirsten asked Julio to explain why he changed his mind after he “pinky promised” to return to Holland when he dropped her off at the airport. After Julio walked her through the chain of events, he suggested she stay another year.

“Well, I don’t think I can wait another year because it’s so hard for me mentally,” she admitted before Julio suggested they end the relationship.

“I’m completely shocked by his whole attitude,” Kirsten told the cameras. “Julio just completely gives up on his relationship. It’s like he doesn’t care at all.”

Kirsten on ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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When she tearfully confronted him about his lack of emotion, Julio claimed he didn’t know how he would react after they hung up. Kirsten accused him of “laughing” during their breakup when she felt like an emotional wreck.

“You don’t understand me,” she said before Julio scoffed and shook his head. “Why are you laughing? It’s disrespectful.”

“I’m so sad. I’m emotional and here you are, mocking me and laughing,” Kirsten continued through tears. Julio explained that he wasn’t laughing, just “in disbelief” at her comments and asked her to end the call which Kirsten didn’t like.

Kirsten from ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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“He’s acting like a complete s—. I’m really hurt because I don’t know if Julio had real intentions to spend the rest of his life with me… Did he even care about me? I’m not sure anymore.”

After suggesting that the best thing to do is break up, Julio admitted, “It’s not a good feeling to know that I broke someone’s heart.

“I feel like…” he told the cameras. “I still love Kirsten, but I think we have to really, you know, assess the situation and really see things for what they are. I feel like me and Kirsten lived in a fantasy world for most of our relationship.”

Mary and Brandon

Mary and Brandan run into a few financial problems after he admits that he won’t have enough money to pay the bills next month.

After Typhoon Odette destroyed her family home, Brandan sent Mary $70,000 to build a new house. Although the house was completed, Mary revealed that she had moved her grandparents into the house to accommodate their old age, and she and her brother lived in a house that was in ruins.

Mary conducted it before the couple sat down to discuss their financial situation. When he discovered that he would be short on bills, Mary devoted herself to selling necklaces, while Brandon admitted that it might not be enough.

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“Any chance we can go see your grandfather for something, a loan or something?” he asked before Mary dismissed the “grandparent dependency” idea.

Bursting into tears, she continued: “I just don’t want to ask him for help anymore because he has already sacrificed so much. I don’t want to stress him out. He is old, you have to understand that.”

“I definitely didn’t expect Mary to react like this,” Brandan admitted to the cameras. “It’s a little too much. I don’t know what he earns on the farm and what he spends the money on, but I know he didn’t spend it on the house. I’m the one who did it. So a small loan could help us a lot.”

Brandan from ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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When Brandan brought up the ways he had sacrificed to earn money to send Mary to finance his home and data plan, she acknowledged the things he had given up to provide for her, noting that his quality of life in America was much different than back home. Philippines.

“I know how Brandan was struggling and I wanted to cry when I saw him like that,” she said in the confessional. “But people in America have government support, like food stamps. Here in the Philippines, not all people will receive support. They have no roof when it rains. They have nothing to cook with, and not even a toilet for poo. Poop everywhere, [they] poop in the river. So he hasn’t experienced real combat here in the Philippines.”

Mary put her foot down and Brandan agreed not to push things any further.

Speaking to the cameras, he said: “Mary is my future, she is the one I love and I want us to grow old together.” So I’ll make sure we’re happy and successful. For me, all this struggle is definitely worth it.”

Shekinah and Sarper

Ahead of Shekinah’s move to Turkey, Sarper admitted he was more than smitten with her after the last time they met in person. He revealed that “everything has changed for me” and shared his plans to finally quit his bachelor lifestyle.

“I don’t want to live that kind of life anymore,” he admitted to his friend Mete, who asked him how many women he had been with since he met her.

“Probably about 2,500,” Sarper replied and told the cameras. “I have dated many, many women in the past. Most of them are one-night stands, I’ve danced more than 600 bachelorette parties [and] half the brides wanted to sleep with me.”

Sarper from ’90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way’.

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“I never thought I’d settle down,” he continued. “But then I met the Shekinah.”

Sarper told Mete that he had recently turned down several women who were hitting on him – something he never would have done before he fell in love. “You know I haven’t been faithful to anyone for 43 years, but I am faithful to her,” he said.

In order to keep the Shekinah in his life, Sarper revealed that he was willing to “leave that lifestyle behind.”

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“She deserves it,” he said in the confessional. “She wanted me to be faithful to her and work hard. Yes I am [been] faithful for 79 days and this is the longest duration I have ever been faithful to a woman.”

Saying that Shekinah was the first girl he ever told he loved, Sarper joked that she must have cast a “spell” on him and admitted that he no longer “recognizes” himself.

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90 Day Fiancé: Another way airs Mondays at 8:00 PM ET on TLC.

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