The bride-to-be is mad at her fiance because he tried to cut short their honeymoon so he could attend his best friend’s bachelor party.
Under Reddit’s wedding subreddit, a woman expressed her disappointment with her husband-to-be’s decision. “I can’t seem to get over the fact that he would rather leave early on our honeymoon to come to the bachelor party,” she wrote.
While she did not elaborate on the details of their honeymoon, including how long the trip will take or the location, she did mention that she plans to accompany her partner to the wedding.
“And we’re both coming to the wedding so it’s not like he missed the big day. We explained both of our POVs, but we’re stuck and we don’t see eye to eye. Has anyone had a similar situation?” she asked.
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In the comments, Reddit users chimed in on the situation and offered their own thoughts on the matter.
One person said: “If things are booked, non-refundable, and it’s next month…then yeah, I wouldn’t bend over backwards to accommodate, but I’d be sympathetic to why he’d want it to work.”
“As other people have said, it really depends on the situation. I have friends I’m really close with and would probably move during our honeymoon so I could support them on their bachelorette party (within reason),” someone else commented. “My friends and I have always dreamed of our weddings/wedding activities and I would be very upset if I missed any part of it.”
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In another comment, the user suggested that the bride-to-be and her fiance should have a more serious discussion about their relationship. “I would recommend therapy for you and some couples counseling for both of you. I would also consider putting your wedding on hold.”
Another person came forward and encouraged the woman to stand her ground.
“If my husband’s best friend asked him to do this 1. My husband would laugh and say you’re funny 2. When he found out it wasn’t a joke he’d laugh again and say of course I can’t do that, it’s my honeymoon. It’s my marriage. I say vows to legally make my fiancé my chosen family. If I can last until the last few days, I will, but otherwise I can’t come. Friendships are incredibly important, but your marriage comes first.”
Commenters were left divided as another added: “I know you feel betrayed but trust me let this feeling go because your husband will remember this and it’s not worth the sweat. It’s also a key memory for him to spend time with his best-friend as a single . I know you would do the same for your best friend.”
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