DEAR Deidre: SINCE I had three with my boyfriend and another man, he keeps begging me to do it again.
Whether she’s looking for men online or writing a pros and cons list, she won’t take no for an answer.
His last move is to suggest we invite the woman as a third person, but I’m just not interested.
I am 36, he is 39 and we have been together for six years.
We share one daughter.
We had an amazing sex life and sometimes it was hard to keep our hands off each other.
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However, over the last few years things between us have changed and I felt his desire for me disappear.
Then one day he brought up the idea of a threesome.
He said he had spoken to a friend who was interested and wanted to explore it with me.
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At first I was worried, but after a while I understood. I was desperate to feel him close again and I thought it might fix things between us.
But I hated it. To say I was waiting for it to finish would be an understatement, but my husband on the other hand couldn’t get enough.
Afterwards I told him how I felt and I thought he understood, but after a few days he started hinting that he would like another one.
Now he asks about it all the time and has even gone so far as to find willing men online to show it to me.
No matter what I do, he still persists, hoping I’ll change my mind.
There is no end.
DEIDRE SAYS: No one should feel pressured to do something sexual they don’t want to do.
You explained that you are not comfortable with it and your boyfriend should accept your reasons instead of constantly trying to convince you to change your mind.
You need to have a serious talk with him about his behavior and explain to him how you feel about him.
Let’s hope some consistent open communication gets through to him.
Maybe you both could try spicing things up in a different way.
My support package 50 Ways to Add Fun to Sex can help you explore without bringing in a third party.
And I’m sorry, but if he’s not willing to respect your wishes or compromise, maybe you should consider whether he’s right for you.
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