DEAR DEIDRE: MY BOYFRIEND thought I played lesbian porn for him, but now I can’t get the woman I did it out of my head and I want to do it again.
I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. I am 23 and he is 25.
We were out one night with my boyfriend’s friend and his girlfriend celebrating a promotion.
We took a taxi at the end of the night and went back to our apartment.
We had a few more drinks and danced.
I messed around dancing provocatively, and another guy’s girl joined in as well.
Then my boyfriend and his friend suggested we strip and then do something else together – they said these were things they’d seen girls do in internet porn.
We ended up acting out lesbian porn for them.
I’m straight and I’ve never even thought about having sex with a woman, but it was so thrilling and exciting.
My boyfriend is gorgeous and our sex life is adventurous.
I have no complaints there, but sometimes he can be quite controlling.
We pretended we were doing it just to please them, but when I think back, all I can think about is how good it was.
Dear Deidre: Understanding the Influence of Spirits
I love my boyfriend, but I can’t tell him that I can’t stop thinking about another girl.
I really want to meet her alone, but I haven’t talked to her so I don’t know how she feels.
She DMed me on Instagram asking to “catch up” but so far I’ve ignored it.
The thoughts I have about her are constant, but I still like them.
I see a beautiful, fun, sexy woman who turns me on.
I don’t find other girls attractive and never have so I’m very confused.
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s easy to get carried away under the influence of alcohol, but this sounds like it stirred something deeper within you.
After this experience, you feel confused about your sexuality.
Be assured that our sexuality can be changeable so this change can be fixed or disappear.
Take time to explore these feelings.
My package, Gay Support, sets out where you can get understanding and advice.
You were right not to reply to the other woman’s message.
You both need to lose relationships and you’d be much better off working if you want to stay with your boyfriend first.
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