“Can we undress already?”
It’s Saturday at 10 p.m., and I’m drinking champagne with guests at a masked sex night in high society.
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Georgette meets a handsome masked man at a party in Venice Credit: Olivia West
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Killing Kittens is one of the UK’s most popular sex partiesCredit: Killing Kittens
The air is heavy with anticipation, a designer perfume. . . and desire.
Although they want to take off their clothes, the British manners of some partygoers prevent them from starting anything.
It was left to the Italian stallion to take the lead, playfully lifting his partner’s elegant ball gown and slapping her bare bottom.
Welcome to one of the UK’s most popular sex parties, Killing Kittens.
For the first time, he hosts his lively guests in Venice, where their everyday life is hidden behind masks and inhibitions are abandoned at the door.
Inspired by the 16th century masquerades in the region, KK has prepared the ultimate erotic experience in the legendary floating city.
For centuries, Venice has attracted romantics and gamblers. The legendary lover Casanova strutted through these streets in the 18th century, and Lord Byron fled here in 1816 after one too many sex scandals in England.
It’s the perfect place to lose yourself in the company of someone else.
I am coming at the end of the carnival season, together with 100 guests who have flown in from all over the world.
As The Sun’s Sexpert, I was given exclusive access to find out what goes on behind closed doors.
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“We have four playrooms tonight,” explains KK founder Emma Sayle as she gives me a private tour of the venue before the debauchery begins.
“After a few hours, the masks will be removed and the guests will rush to the side rooms.
“A lot of bisexual girls are coming tonight, so you’re going to see a lot of girl-on-girl action.
“You’ll also see orgies and guests walking around watching. It’s a thousand shades of grey.”
Emma says she is no longer disturbed by what she sees at her sex dinners, which are often held in lavish locations, usually in modern penthouses or country villas.
“You have 60 people naked on a bed like in Dante’s Inferno, which is pretty wild, but to me it’s pretty average.
“It happens at every party.”
KK has seen a “huge increase” in British mums in their late 30s and 40s attending their raunchy events – and many are here tonight.
You will also see orgies and guests walking around watching. It’s a thousand shades of gray
Killing Kittens founder Emma Sayle
“There are a lot of divorced moms who think, ‘We’re not on the shelf, we’ve got fire, we’ve got passion, we’ve got wants and needs,'” continues Emma, who is friends with Kate Middleton.
“It’s about being unapologetically selfish in the bedroom.
“We have desires, we are not as invisible as people think we are. They want to come and explore and have disposable income.
“Sex is no longer about reproduction. It’s about pleasure. It’s about our time.
“We are more financially independent, which means we can leave husbands and unhappy marriages.
“We don’t have to stay in them.”
This is true for mum-of-five Lily, 40.
A customer service agent from London tells me that she has been a member of KK for five years, but this is her first sex party abroad.
“My partner is at home with the kids because it’s half term,” Lily says with a laugh.
“We respect each other and control each other.
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Georgette leaves with her mystery man Credit: Olivia West
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KK rules are that women must approach men first Credit: Killing Kittens
“If he’s with someone or if I’m going with someone, we’ll make sure we’re good.
“Every couple has their ups and downs, but we make sure nothing rocks the boat.”
Lily says she was “looking for adventure” when she enrolled at KK, but ended up meeting her partner at a party in London and the couple now have a three-year-old son.
“He came to the party with another woman, um,” Lily says with another laugh.
“She’s in our group of friends, so it wasn’t like I was stealing from someone. Here at Killing Kittens, we love to share!
“We met that night for the first time and never parted. I didn’t expect this from my life.
“I have four children from my previous marriage, and now my partner has taken them as well. It’s the best thing.
“I’m so excited for tonight.
“The glamor and elegance of a Venetian party is higher than a London mansion. It’s a once-in-a-lifetime event.”
I was once at a party in London and a panicked girl ran up to me and said: ‘F***, I’ve just seen my uncle!’
KK community manager Tash
We go back to tonight and the guests can’t wait to start undressing.
“It’s a herd mentality,” says Emma. “People don’t want to be the first to do it, but when other people drop theirs, they will too.”
Emma says everyone has to come with a mask and leave it on for two hours until the drinks reception ends.
Other rules include no phone calls and control of women.
“Men can’t approach women they don’t know,” she continues. “First are women. It’s a kitten’s world.”
KK community manager Tash, 40, a mum from Winchester, Hants, tells me why masks are mandatory.
“This is to ensure privacy,” she explains. “Once I was at a party in London and a panicked girl ran up to me and said: ‘S***, I’ve just seen my uncle!’.
“Fortunately, she was wearing a mask so he didn’t notice.
“We put her in a dark corner and told her not to wear a mask.”
With that, the drinks reception is over and it’s time to take off the extravagant green feathers that hide my face.
But other guests at the €650 per ticket event are starting to lose a lot more. . .
I turn around to see a glamorous middle-aged blonde woman wearing a royal Venetian costume from the 16th century.
She looks like she stepped straight out of Netflix’s Bridgerton Celebration.
“I’m getting hot under the collar, in more ways than one,” he says with a laugh.
Nearby, I meet a shy newcomer, Ed, a 32-year-old banker from London.
“The last time I wore this suit was to my grandmother’s funeral,” he tells me. “It seems a little inappropriate to wear it tonight.
“Each room is like an exhibit from a museum. I had no idea what to expect.”
It’s midnight — and for these guests, the party is just getting started.
In every corner, couples and groups squirm with pleasure.
Synchronized cries of ecstasy rise through the three-story Venetian penthouse
“It’s so liberating,” says Lady Jada, 43, an Australian designer and mother of one, as she sips a cocktail.
“We are more than just moms and housewives.”
I have made many friends in the community and enjoy the sex chats on the app. It is very instructive
Lady Jada
Lady Jada tells me how she became a member of KK ten years ago. “I find the events incredibly elegant and safe,” she says.
“I’ve made a lot of friends in the community and I enjoy sex chats on the app. It’s very educational.”
She admits she is “really disappointed” that her partner couldn’t come tonight.
“We are in an open relationship and he loves that I go to these parties,” she continues.
“He thinks it’s very sexy and kinky.
“He certainly wants to come with me as a guest.
“But he’s been replaced by some great eye candy,” she says with a giggle, nodding in the direction of the muscular security guard.
By 2 am, a giant orgy takes place in one of the Renaissance red rooms.
Elaborate masks – plus expensive and distinctive red-soled Louboutin shoes – are strewn across the floor.
In the morning, the guests will return to their usual faces – moms who greet other parents at the school gate and talk about their pets.
However, tonight they briefly escaped the confines of marriage and motherhood and were unapologetically selfish.
Until next month, when they put on their masks and meet again
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100 guests from all over the world attended the partyCredit: Killing Kittens
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Tickets for the event cost 650 euros Credits: Killing Kittens
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Emma Sayle, a friend of Kate Middleton, founded Killing KittensCredit: Olivia West
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Lily met her partner at a party in London and the couple now have a three-year-old son Credit: Olivia West
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Party Venue in Venice Credit: Olivia West
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