Kristin Cavallari Gets Candid on Why Co-Parenting with Ex Jay Cutler Is 'Really Hard': 'It's a Bumpy Road'

Kristin Cavallari is getting real about co-parenting with her ex-husband Jay Cutler.

Hills alum, 37, appeared in the latest installment of Bunnie XO’s Stupid blonde podcast and opened up about her co-parenting experience with the retired NFL star, 41. The former spouses share sons Camden Jack, 12, Jaxon Wyatt, 10, and daughter Saylor James, 9.

“It’s been so up and down,” Cavallari said of co-parenting with Cutler, adding that there is “zero f—— consistency, which is really hard.”

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Although she admitted, “It wasn’t easy, to say the least,” she recalled sitting next to him at a basketball game this year, calling it “the best thing ever.”

“We did it!” she added, before joking, “And we haven’t sat together since. It’s been a bumpy ride.”

She told Jelly Roll’s wife that she and Cutler, who divorced in 2020 after 10 years together, “probably” won’t be spending Christmas in the same space anytime soon.

Admitting it was a “weak thing” considering they have children together, the podcast host said it would “make” their children “stronger”.

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Cavallari shared with her Let’s be honest podcast in October that her custody agreement with Cutler had changed.

She also addressed her breakup with ex-boyfriend Mark Estes and explained why she’s not getting back into relationships just yet.

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“Right now I have no interest in getting back into the dating world. I also don’t know how much time I have for dating,” Cavallari said at the time. “When I was dating last fall, I still had shared custody with my ex and I had every other week off from my kids and that changed.”

Kristin Cavallari at the 2023 People’s Choice Country Awards on September 28, 2023 in Nashville, Tennessee.

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“So I’m really happy and really satisfied that my life now revolves around my kids and my work,” Cavallari continued. “Happiness to me is peace, and peace to me is making this home exactly the way I want it.”

“I’m a homebody. I really am. Being at home, cooking and having friends, those things make me happy. Other than that, I don’t really have much time for anything else.”

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