DEAR DEIDRE: My friend’s ‘quiet get-together’ for his 21st got totally out of hand and I ended up in bed with his mum.
I’m 22 years old and I’ve never met his family before because he doesn’t live near me. We are students.
He went home for the holidays, and his birthday was in the summer. His mom gave birth to him at the age of 17 – she is only 37.
He doesn’t know his dad, but he has a stepfather who works abroad. His mom is fit and made me feel so welcome.
His schoolmates and family were wonderful and the party got busier as more people arrived.
In their garage there was a bar with lights and decks, and I was in charge of the music. His mom was refilling my beer.
She looked amazing in her leather dress with her dark hair flowing down her back.
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I went to the toilet and when I stepped out onto the landing, she was standing there.
She drank a few glasses of wine and stumbled.
I grabbed her elbow and then we kissed.
Then everything happened so fast – she dragged me to her bedroom and we had sex there.
I had never been with anyone her age before, but she had no inhibitions.
Thank God no one caught us.
Now we’re back at college and our friends are organizing nights out and going on dates.
But I sidestep all that and make excuses so I can run away and catch a train to my partner’s town to see his mom.
I’m starting to develop feelings for her, but I’m not sure how long it can last.
I feel like I’m in a dream world.
DEIDRE SAYS: Your feelings for her are real, but this is pure lust that is not sustainable.
If they nag you, you will completely ruin your friendship, your friend’s relationship with his mom, and maybe become a marriage destroyer. Do you want this on your conscience?
The age difference is big enough that you are in different life stages. You could have an exciting future ahead of you without a lover complicating your life.
End things now before it gets really messy.
Your friend’s mom is using you as a distraction while her husband works far away and has no future in that.
My support package called Love Or Lust can help you put your feelings into perspective.
Categories: Optical Illusion
Source: HIS Education