DEAR DEIDRE: MY wife has formed an intense friendship with my first love and her constant presence disturbs me.
I can’t stop fantasizing about her. Now the only way I can orgasm when I’m with my wife is to imagine this ex.
It had been almost 30 years since I had seen her, but hearing her familiar, throaty laugh, I knew immediately that she was the slim and beautiful woman at the bar of the pub.
We are both 50 years old, but she looks much younger and ages better than my wife, who at 47 is three years younger.
We had a good chat about the old days and exchanged numbers.
I’m a straightforward guy who was mentioned to my wife so much that I bumped into her.
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We were planning my birthday party at the same pub so my wife suggested we invite her.
She accepted the invitation and when she arrived, my wife really made an effort with her.
They had similar interests and worked for the same merchant at different times so they had mutual connections there.
From that night on, they became best friends, going shopping and going out together.
Yet this other woman always compliments me and remembers things we talked about years ago. I keep thinking about what my life could have been like if I had stuck with that teenage relationship.
My wife smokes, drinks a lot and gained weight after giving birth to our three children.
Our sex life is sporadic and I don’t like her sexually.
Should I tell my ex what I feel? Am I leaving my wife? I feel like we were meant to be together again.
DEIDRE SAYS: If you were meant to be together, this would have happened a long time ago.
First loves are special, but you can’t keep thinking that every other aspect of your life would improve if you were together.
You don’t know her as a partner. You remember her as a teenager, and today as a woman who knows how to flatter your ego.
Remember why you fell in love with your wife.
There was something that attracted you.
Are these attributes really gone? If she is kind and caring, it is worth improving your relationship.
If things need to change, tell her what you would like to improve and ask her to list her requirements.
Chances are, she feels the same way. My support package 50 ways to add fun to sex will also help you.
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