Joško apologized to Vanja after she revealed that he had previously filmed her having sex without her knowledge or permission during their roller coaster romance.
The startling revelation was revealed in the January 26 episode 90 Day Fiancé: 90 days ago as Vanja and Joško searched their relationship in Kaža sve.
Joško, who joined Java all virtually from Croatia, spent several minutes throwing shade at Vanja, from talking about his negative perception of her as a mother to making fun of her sexual preferences. Vanja felt slighted by Joško’s misrepresentation of their relationship and decided to expose her wrongdoing.
“Without my consent, without my knowledge, [he] violated my privacy, my body,” Vanja said in tears to the group, which resolutely supported her.
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Vanja then said that Joško does not consider his actions problematic. In fact, “He was proud of himself for doing it,” she said.
Joško admitted that he had recorded the intimate communication and at first claimed that he had talked to Vanja about it before continuing.
Vanja cries as she discusses the sex tape that Joško made without her permission or knowledge.
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In the end, Joško admitted that Vanja never gave him express permission to record the interaction in question.
“I developed a story in my head about consent, but it was not there,” he admitted to the group.
Joško said that Vanji apologized “several times” after she found out about the video. But he defended himself by claiming that he “did it to spice things up” in their sex life.
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At the instigation of host Shawn Robinson, Joško apologized to Vanja in front of the group.
“I’m terribly sorry,” began Joško, adding that the incident with the sex tape “kept me awake for many days.” “It’s not something I’m proud of. … It was something I shouldn’t have done.”
He continued: “I violated your privacy, I violated your trust, and I am deeply sorry. I couldn’t find the words to describe how sorry I am about that.”
Joško looks embarrassed after he was criticized for recording sex with Vanja without her consent.
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During the season, Vanja spoke openly about her issues with trusting men and her conscious decision to be selective about who she is intimate with. But for a while she felt that she could trust Joška.
By the time Tell All rolled around, that was no longer the case. “It’s heartbreaking because I’m doing my best in the relationship, and then the other person doesn’t want to continue with me anymore,” cried Vanja. “And it’s very disappointing to know that I keep giving and giving and getting it back.”
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Despite this, Joško believes that the only mistake he made in relation to Vanja was that he “recorded the video” without her permission.
“I had really good intentions with her,” he claimed. “It didn’t work, but I’m glad we tried. She’s beautiful, she’s amazing and I want her to meet someone who will respect and love her more than me and definitely more than God.”
Vanja calls out Joško for violating her trust after he recorded their sexual encounter without her consent.
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Vanja still started it Fiancé of 90 days traveling with a completely different man. She first traveled to Croatia to meet Boža, who suddenly called Vanja a friend-zone when she came to visit.
Earlier in the episode, Vanja revealed that she was more frustrated with her relationship with Josko than with Boža, even though “they were both frustrating in their own way.”
“Being intimate with someone is a big deal for me,” she said through tears. “And the fact that he got it for me, I don’t want to say I want to take it back, but I wish I didn’t.”
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90 Day Fiancé: 90 days ago airs Sundays at 8:00 PM ET/PT on TLC.
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