Kim Menzies is officially moving on.
On Monday in the episode Diaries of 90 daysformer 90 Day Fiancé: 90 days ago the star herself recorded her life at home in America, including her decision to eliminate Usman “Sojaboy” Umar from her life.
“Usman and I broke up. But we are friends,” she said. “I’m really trying not to text Usman every day because we’re not going to be together.”
The video, taken by her son Jamal, shows Kim putting Usman’s belongings into the box, as well as some photos and memorabilia from their relationship. The change of decor took place six months after their separation.
“I’m not going to grow if I don’t move on or get over them, if I have all these pictures up there and all these things, you know?” she said.
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Kim Menzies on The 90 Day Diaries.
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At the time the segment was filmed, Kim was still on friendly terms with Usman, but revealed that he was planning to start a family with someone else.
“We still talk, but like, there’s no more love, you know? He said he was arranging to go find his wife and have children. So why am I sitting here still calling him every day?” she asked. “Why am I sitting here still texting him? Why do I get so upset, you know?”
As part of a life update, Kim decided to talk to a psychic about her next love. When the psychic mentioned “loss,” Kim remembered her broken engagement. Then the psychic said that Kim’s mother came with advice.
“What your mom says is that you two were just at different places in life. So it’s really about creating that distance in that space so that the two of you can love to go and live your lives,” said the psychic.
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Kim Menzies has burned reminders of her relationship with Usman Umar.
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Looking ahead, Kim has another relationship on the horizon—if the stars align. “This year will be about rapid changes in growth for you and how you will find your own stability and your own security, and then prepare for a new relationship,” concluded the psychic. “Because I feel it coming for you, you know. But there’s a lot of work you have to do for yourself first to be ready for that next relationship.”
Kim took the opportunity of the purge to burn the remains of her relationship with Usman. She took the box outside and burned the photos of the couple as she looked ahead to a new chapter in her romantic life.
Usman’s last relationship was with American Kiera on Instagram, which he posted last summer. However, the couple are no longer together – both Usman and Kiera have deleted all of each other’s posts from their Instagram accounts, and Kiera has started a new romance (supported by Usman 90 days ex-wife Lisa Hamme in the comments on Instagram).
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