DEAR DEIDRE: MY Christmas party at work is always wild, but this year things got really out of hand and I ended up having sex with my boss in the photo booth he hired for the occasion.
Normally we kiss and caress solemnly, but I’ve never had sex with him before – let alone in a semi-public place.
The next day he showed me one strip of polaroid promising to throw it in the trash then, but I’m sure there were more and now I’m petrified of what the camera took and what happened to the other pictures.
We live in a tight community and everyone at work is already talking about the ‘sex booth’ as the photo booth is called.
One of my co-workers even had the nerve to ask if I’d like to play reverse cowgirl with him again – just like he’d seen in my photos.
I used to love my job, but now I’m afraid to go into it, and I’ve even gotten sick.
I am so ashamed because I got engaged this year and promised myself that I would behave well this time.
My boss, who is 33 years old, is a real jack the lad and knows that my weakness is champagne. He always treats me to a drink whenever we go out.
I am 28 and my boyfriend is 30. I have worked at the same car sales company for three years and have enjoyed the attention of my boss in the past.
But then we were both single. I have now met my fiance, who is great, and I am so worried about losing him.
I can’t believe I was so stupid.
DEIDRE SAYS: If your boss or any other colleague shares compromising photos of you, they will be guilty of revenge pornography (sharing sexual images without consent).
It is understandable that you are humiliated and worried about this situation.
Not only are your career and reputation at work at risk, but now your relationship with the man you clearly love may be at risk.
If you think he’s likely to find out, you’d better tell him yourself. It would also be wise to talk to the Revenge Porn Helpline for advice on how to deal with this uncertainty at work.
And if you want to maintain control over your behavior, stay away from alcohol. Beware of anyone out to get you drunk – they won’t have your best interests in mind.
Drinking weakens everyone’s resolve. If you were sober, there’s no way you’d end up with this regret.
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Categories: Optical Illusion
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