DEAR DEIDRE: PEOPLE say my girlfriend is a cougar because she’s more than 20 years older than me, but I’m proud to be with her.
However, she is uncomfortable – she does not want to introduce me to her friends or family and we always stay at my house. How can I convince her that I truly love her and want a future with her?
I am a 27-year-old guy, and she is 49. We have been together for three years.
For me, the fact that a mature woman is only positive. She is beautiful, confident, independent and fantastic in bed.
She is experienced, so she knows exactly what she likes and how to please me.
At first my friends thought it was all a big joke, calling me her boy toy.
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Some of them still don’t understand why I’m with her and not a girl my own age.
But the close ones realized that it’s not just about sex and now they fully accept it.
As for her friends, I have no idea what they think, because she won’t let me meet them.
We spend several nights a week and every weekend together, but always in my apartment.
It’s starting to annoy me. I don’t look bad, I have a good job and my own home.
I can’t understand why he is ashamed of me. We have a lot of interests in common and she never made me feel like she thought I was immature.
I told her how happy she made me and that I would love to marry her one day.
But that can’t happen if she’s keeping me a secret.
As far as I’m concerned, age is just a number. Why can’t I make her believe it too?
DEIDRE SAYS: Society can judge relationships with large age gaps.
But many couples have happy, lasting relationships, despite the age difference.
Maybe your girlfriend feels that she will be harshly judged or that her friends will have nothing in common with you.
She may be worried about the future – for example, if you want children and she won’t be able to give them to you.
Or maybe he doesn’t believe you’re in it for the long haul. On the other hand, maybe it’s not, which is why he’s keeping you to himself.
You need to talk openly with her about your concerns. Tell her how you feel and ask her to be honest.
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