DEAR DEIDRE: I miss having sex with my ex so I slept with his younger brother hoping he would be just as good in bed.
We broke up because I was tired of hearing that he wanted us to settle down. I wasn’t ready for that.
He’s 31 and we’ve been together for two years, but I still consider myself young at 25.
I don’t want to get married before I’m at least 30, and having kids is definitely not on my radar.
He was my first true love and everything was good at first, but all he talked about was his investments and his plan to buy a house.
All my friends would go out and party while I stayed with my boyfriend and he would talk about mortgages and selling my car so I could put more money into the pot.
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It was causing arguments so I ended our relationship. He was broken, but I suddenly felt free.
I went to clubs with my friends and I liked to talk. I started drinking more and taking off my clothes with every man who paid attention to me. Since then I have slept with 11 men in two months.
I was out last week and ran into my ex’s younger brother. He is 25 years old and I have always liked him. My parents were away for the weekend so I invited him to come back to my place.
I seduced him because I wanted to see which brother was the best among the sheets. His younger brother was an amazing lover with my persuasion.
And even though I enjoyed it, I wondered why I hadn’t heard from him since.
I’m not sure why I act like this. I love sex and the feeling of desire, but I know I’ll get a reputation if I keep sleeping around.
DEIDRE SAYS: Everyone enjoys receiving positive attention, but the thrills of one-night stands are often short-lived.
You don’t know these guys and you could be risking your physical safety as well as your sexual health.
And for what? Five minutes of painful sex, then the awkwardness of chatting with a guy you barely know.
Sure, there’s nothing wrong with having a little fun, but it sounds like that’s not really what you want.
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