After months of flirting with my married neighbor, we finally gave in and slept together.
The build was so amazing and it didn’t disappoint when we fell into bed together.
The sex was so intense and I really thought we had a special bond, but from that moment everything changed and now he refuses to talk to me.
I am 35 years old and a single mother of an eight-year-old girl.
My neighbor is 46 years old and married, with two sons and a daughter.
His youngest and my daughter became fast friends so I often saw him and his wife.
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From the very beginning, I suspected that he had fallen in love with me. His constant longing glances and flirtatious remarks were hard to ignore.
As time passed, I found myself thinking about him more and more.
Every time he came to pick up his children, he would often linger and soon began making up random excuses to drop by.
He started confiding in me about his strained marriage.
Then one night he stopped by when my daughter was at her dad’s.
We knew what was coming and went straight upstairs to my bedroom.
Afterwards he told me he wanted to be with me.
But after he left everything changed. He stopped coming and every time I see him he looks at me and leaves.
I tried to talk to him, but he doesn’t want to know.
I feel so hurt and confused.
Does he regret what he did? Did it mean nothing?
DEIDRE SAYS: The moment you acted on your fantasies, reality came crashing down on him.
He may be fighting with his wife, but the fact that he is ready to leave her and his children is another matter entirely.
If you had continued with this affair, it is unlikely that there would have been a positive result.
While it could be that he reciprocates your feelings, he is clearly distancing himself for a reason.
As hard as it may be to see, this man is doing you a favor and at least he’s not picking on you.
Any rejection is hard to process and this one is right on your doorstep so it will be harder to escape.
Give yourself time to lick your wounds, and then when you’re ready, pull yourself together and go out again, ready to meet someone who’s available for a relationship.
I’m sending you my Your Lover Not Free support package to explain the pitfalls of this type of relationship.
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