DEAR DEIDRE: I had a passionate relationship with an older woman at work, but then we broke it off so I could date her niece. The problem is that my aunt is pregnant now – and I am the father.
I am 26 years old and I work as a mechanic in a car dealership. This elderly lady is 40 years old and is a service manager there.
He looks great for his age and is liked by all the guys in the garage.
One evening her car wouldn’t start.
I left and instead of having to catch the train as usual, she offered me a ride.
She came to my apartment for drinks and there was a lot of sexual chemistry, so I kissed her.
She responded and we ended up spending the night together.
She was an experienced lover and taught me a few things.
We both agreed that because of our age difference, we would be friends for sex and nothing more.
But at Easter we had our annual family day at work and my lover’s niece was there.
She is 22 years old and I liked her.
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Afterwards, my lover said that she could see that there was something between me and her niece and that she would never hold me back, so I decided to ask her niece out.
My girlfriend’s aunt and I agreed to keep our friendship with benefits arrangement a secret.
Then we had sex one more time for old times sake.
Her niece and I have been dating for six weeks and I feel like she could be the girl of my dreams.
Her aunt and I are back to a purely professional relationship, but last week at work she told me she was pregnant and I was the dad.
We were both single at the time, but I don’t know how my girlfriend will take the news.
Also, if I married my girlfriend, my child would be my wife’s cousin.
DEIDRE SAYS: It’s a mess.
I’ll spare you the lectures on unprotected sex because you’re already paying a high price.
Is your ex-love sure to go ahead with this pregnancy?
She may feel that her biological clock is ticking, but she needs to be sure that she can cope as a single parent.
Secrets have a habit of getting out so if she’s decided to move on, you’ll have to tell your girlfriend.
If you stay together, you will have to prepare for potential criticism from the family.
My Unplanned Pregnancy Support Package will show you where to find emotional help.
Categories: Optical Illusion
Source: HIS Education