90 day: single lifeMiss Debbie Aguero wonders if she’s ready to open up to physical intimacy again.
In PEOPLE’s exclusive sneak peek of Monday’s episode of the hit TLC spinoff Fiancé of 90 daysMiss Debbie, 67, finds herself on a flirty date with love interest Ruben — and discovers she hasn’t had sex in over a decade.
“It’s been 14 years since I had sex,” he says openly at one point in the video. “Is it physically possible for me to turn back into a virgin? Sometimes I wonder.”
Despite feeling like it’s been a while since she’s felt comfortable and safe enough in a relationship to have sex, things seem to have heated up between her and Ruben, a 58-year-old man she met earlier in the season and dubbed him “Ruben the Cuban from Miami.”
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Miss Debbie and Ruben in ’90 Day: The Single Life’.
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In the sneak peek of Monday’s episode, the two enjoy a romantic date together at a Miami nightclub where they both hit the dance floor and sip mojitos while cozying up next to each other in a booth.
Ruben even said that it was a special date. “I think we definitely agree. We giggle and enjoy ourselves the whole night. I think it’s a great vibe,” he says.
The Miami native also candidly admits that she’s hoping to find more than a “quick, hot weekend” relationship. Ruben explains: “I’m looking for someone to have fun with, someone who is my best friend, someone I can talk to about anything.”
He continues: “I’m not just looking for sex, I want to make love.” I’d rather take my time, be a gentleman and just enjoy it and build on it.”
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Miss Debbie in ’90 Day: The Single Life’.
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Miss Debbie seems to agree with what her partner is asking, as she also said she was glad she never had sex with Oussam, whose courtship burned her on 90 Day Fiancé: Another way.
“Oussama tried to have sex with me several times in Morocco before our upcoming marriage and I told him ‘No’ several times,” she said. “‘You’re not going to get any of this ice cream, honey.'”
“I’m so glad I didn’t let Miss Debbie give up her virginity and honor to that young punk,” she added.
While Miss Debbie was “hurt” by her previous relationship with 24-year-old Oussam, this season 90 day: single lifeshe talked about how excited she was to meet someone new in Ruben.
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She said earlier in the season, “We’ve been talking every day for a few weeks and he’s Cuban. It has that exotic flare that I look for.”
“You know, it sounds romantic: ‘Cuban Ruben from Miami,'” she added. “And he is age appropriate and loves to travel. And he ran with the bulls. Like, you know, he has my spirit.”
Although their relationship is relatively new, the two have already dubbed themselves “Sugar Hill Debbie-Licious and Ruben the Groovin’ Cuban.”
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90 day: single life airs Mondays at 8:00 PM ET on TLC.
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