DEAR DEIDRE: I long to be a cuckold and watch my wife have sex with other men, but I don’t know how to ask her.
We have been married for 11 years and have no children.
She is a very attractive lady and I can tell when she’s out with me that she’s an eye-catcher. She has a beautiful body. She is curvy and 37 years old.
She has her own hair salon and receives a lot of uninvited attention and messages from men, sometimes her customers, sometimes strangers.
He shows them to me and says they are funny. She never took those messages seriously.
I’m a 39 year old male and I’m a big guy, but I’m plain looking and don’t attract the attention my wife does.
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We have an adventurous sex life. She likes to dress up for me and we enjoy role playing.
Recently, while we were on vacation, a guy introduced himself and his wife and we had a good chat.
Later he asked us if we wanted to join him and his wife in their room to have “a little fun”.
We turned him down, but it sparked a conversation between us about whether we would ever dare to introduce someone else into our sex lives.
My wife said she felt too shy to do it, but when we had sex later that night – and it was great sex – she called out the same guy’s name just as she reached orgasm.
She was horrified by this, but I teased her and said, “Maybe we were too hasty in rejecting him?”
I can’t stop thinking about it now. Should I ask my wife if she would like to have sex with someone while I watch?
DEIDRE SAYS: You could, but the thrill-seeking you long for may not have the results you expect.
Some people are turned on by the thought of seeing another man having sex with their partner.
It is one of the more common fetishes – but there are also risks.
If your wife were to develop feelings for the person having sex with her, or even if she wanted to have sex again, would that compromise your opinion of your own sexual ability?
If this is something you both want to do, set your own boundaries, not just practicing safe sex.
If you decide you’d rather keep sex between the two of you anyway, my support package 50 Ways to Add Fun to Sex will help you spice things up.
Categories: Optical Illusion
Source: HIS Education